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Tue, 3 Nov 2009 14:09:13 

Sarah Jones
Tags: why play that game guys

Dating is in essence a fun and enjoyable experience for two and sometimes four individuals. Even if a relationship does not prevail it is nice to socialise. One date can turn into two dates or three or however many more. So If that’s the impression a guy gives me then why does he leave me at the door and doesn’t call.

I am confused when men do this and why? Is it an ego thing, did you get a kick out of leading me on. Or maybe you were disappointed that I did not invite you in – and I am not referring to just my flat. Or do you have another woman waiting for you and you are trying to sow your royal oats. No? Then why?

I mean, it is frustrating to me because it is almost like a waste of time and effort. Ladies don’t go on dates just in their Night wear (though I bet some men wish we would). It takes time and little effort for us to prep for the date and when we do we look good on the arm of the guy we are dating.

So if you enjoyed my company enjoyed my time, enjoyed my beauty and showed me with compliments then why no follow up call to see hows things are and potentially scheduling another date, No?

I admit I broke the code and called his phone number to see what was up. But no answer no return call. So to me there obviously is an issue. Is it with me? I guess I will never know at this rate. I am not needy just need to know why men like to play these games. Can someone share some light on this please!

Sarah.  
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