Smarter Dater Team
16/12/2009 12:46 |
To start with your friends and family are already known to you. So its easy to talk to them . You need to practice interacting with people like see in general like trains stations and buses in order to build your confidence level a little bit. It will take out the fear factor in conversation and help you develop interesting things to talk about. Make sure you ask follow-on question and insert your opinion.
Also suggest taking a public speaking class. It will be horrible the first few times, but you'll learn, in a safe environment, that's its ok to speak out loud. It might really help you realize that you can come out of your shell.
And lastly- if you don't feel confident, pretend that you are. You'd be surprised at how easily fake confidence becomes real confidence see yourself as someone else and lean of their “confidence” it does work.
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I want to stand out and be notice by daters but not as though I am imposing myself on other daters. I can be shy but I want to be able to start a conversation with someone and keep it going. Honestly it's hard to get a boyfriend when you can't talk to your own friends. I would also appreciate ways to practice.